Women's Code to Relationship

1. Don’t appear as too eager. Men are sometimes intimidated by how forward a woman can seem. Play hard to get. It makes the chase much more interesting for the man.

2. Don’t come off as “too independent”. Once again, this intimidates most men. When a woman tries to portray herself as too independent it will most likely turn them off. Remember, just because you don’t want to come off as too independent, don’t come off as to dependent either.

3. Keep it classy. Manners go a long way. Say “please” and “thank you” when needed. No one likes a rude date. Make sure you are dressed your best. The only thing that is worse than a rude date is a rude date that can’t dress.

4. Don’t dumb yourself down. Do not laugh at every stupid joke that he says and don’t act as if you have no opinions. Conversations that are one-sided are very boring. Disagree with him. Just because you disagree doesn’t mean that you have to fight about it either, be mature and have an intellectual debate about your differing opinions.

5. Don’t mention love. Who would have ever thought that one word with four letters could scare men so quickly? The mere thought of love frightens all men. Once the word “love” is thrown out into the conversation, they think that the next step is meeting each other’s parents and moving in together. Keep the conversation as casual as possible.

6. Be yourself. Don’t try too hard to impress a man because you want your man to like you for who you are, not for who you appear to be.

7. Don’t be too clingy. No one likes someone who is constantly calling, texting, and leaving voicemails. Give your man some space. Let him breathe. Allow there to be a day where you don’t see him. I assure you that you will be much happier to see him after not spending the day with him.

8. Be supportive. If he has a basketball game, be there for support. There is nothing that can make a man happier besides seeing his girl in the stands smiling and cheering for him.

9. Don’t force it. He does not want to go to the hair salon, nail salon, or the spa with you. He also doesn’t want to sit there and listen to the gossip you heard while at the grocery store. Realize that there are some things that interest him more. And usually what interests you, isn’t what interests him.

10. COOK! The way to any man’s heart is definitely food. Of course going out to a restaurant for dinner is always, but there’s nothing better than a home cooked meal.